1.8.08

I wasn't going to... but

apparently my ex boyfriend thinks it's okay to talk about our situation on the internet.  Since he is dragging my name through the mud and we have some of the same readers I just want to let everyone know MY side of the story.
  
He wrote this post today...
"Everyone please bear with me for a while, as I have lost my blog design.  My ex girlfriend Jenna is the one who designed it for me, and out of spite for me, because we broke up, she decided to remove my header from photobucket.  I'm very sorry to all my readers, I will design something else don't worry, it will just be a matter of time.  My blog is still fully functional though, don't worry about that!"
To which I responded...
"You wish it was out of spite!  More like the fact that you brought someone to my house who is not welcome here, called your grandma to threaten me when I have a broken foot, and cried to me that we weren't friends anymore on facebook, but then after I sent you a friend request you denied it.  There are consequences to all of our actions.  What I learned is that I was being far too nice about the whole situation and that you were just taking advantage of that kindness.  But having your grandma call and threaten me, and bringing someone to my house who has threatened me bodily harm (your words not mine) is a little over the top and we can't be friends when you behave like that.  I should never ever feel unsafe.  Call it spite if you wanna, just more like facts.  I have been more than cordial and accommodating.  Yesterday we didn't even talk while you were here, I didn't do anything to you, my family has been SUPER nice to you, and you just keep pushing buttons and doing things that are not cool.  Perhaps in the future you will not take advantage of others kindness, and ask them how their broken foot is.  Be thankful for all their help and willingness to work around your schedule and demands.  Making enemies is a lot harder than you make it seem. "

This seriously has been one of the hardest things I've had to go through.  We had agreed to stay friends, but so many things have happened since then that tell me otherwise.  I won't go into huge detail or great depth about this because I believe he is a good person who is just really confused right now.  I believe he normally wouldn't act like this, but something is going on with him.  So I have put up with a lot of stuff in the last few days.  More than I should have to with a broken foot, which was more or less caused by his demand that I gather all of his stuff and put it outside for him.  When I told him I could not because the stuff was too heavy, he became upset and so I went and gathered and ended up breaking my foot.  I never would have broken my foot if I didn't have to gather his stuff.  But then having your family get involved and threaten me and bring people over to my house when I am on bed rest and can not even walk... really low.  There have been several other things, but as I said I am not going to drag anyone's name through the mud, just defend my actions.  He made it seem like I was sitting here so mad that he broke up with me that I just deleted his design.   Not the case!  I don't need to say anything further than that... just not the case!  I appreciate all of my followers support that I have received during this time.  I can't believe how many people have reached out to me.  It is so nice.  I love you all! 

5 comments:

singedwingangel said...

ohh don't you hate people who only want to whine and not tell the full story. Need me to go smack him?? Sounds like he needs it..

Nicole said...

Jenna!! =( This breaks my heart! I skype, I twitter, I Facebook, I text, I talk via the telephone!! PLEASE if you need to talk, cry, etc etc do not hesitate to use any of these!! Take Care pretty lady =D

viewfromdownhere said...

Ugh, boys are just stupid.

Erin said...

I am so sorry, sweetie. Wish there was something I could do. I hope all of his stuff is out by now, and it sounds as if being friends won't be an option. How are you feeling today despite having to deal with all of this drama?

Daisygirl said...

so sorry that you are going through all this right now!!! That is a lot ot have to deal with! I'm here to if you ever need to chat!